Legacy….

The Suicide Club was an expression of an idea. It was an idea made concrete by the vision and genius of Gary Warne, but it was also an expression of its times and of an age.

In the language of the Suicide Club, an ‘event’ was an experience to be appreciated and embraced as a chance to be fully awake and alive, on the world’s terms, not necessarily your own.  We mostly did these things in groups back in the day, but as I discovered later the best events can be those that are experienced alone.

The ‘event meme’ thought pattern was easy to internalize and carry forward in life, every novel situation whether good or bad could easily be seen and appreciated as a ‘Suicide Club Event’.  I have been on countless ‘events’ in the last 30+ years, mostly ones that only I know about.  Mostly these would probably seem comically trivial, but its all about how it pushes your buttons!   Being a cub scout leader for a year in the mid-90’s was a true Suicide Club event for me, yep.   In my particular case I was fortunate to have a life partner for several decades who also was a Suicide Club veteran, so we got ourselves through many a situation with the knowledge that  it was yet another ‘event’.  Thanks, Judy!

And beyond that I have been able to appreciate how so many people I know who had never heard of the Suicide Club had discovered for themselves a similar appetite for adventure and ‘entering the unknown’ with curiosity and appreciation for unfiltered reality. Thanks, Laura!

My eternal thanks to Gary, David, Adrienne, Nancy, and all my Suicide Club cohort and everybody who has carried this torch forward in every direction imaginable!

As David would say:  ‘Have Fun!’

BC

 

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Gorilla Grotto

The Gorilla Grotto was a play space created by Gary Warne in 1979  as an experimental 
store-front café and “adult play
environment,”.

It was an ambitious
 attempt to engage thinking adults with
their world and their fellow humans in
playful and sometime shocking ways.
Each night of the week, a different theme
was presented. In-depth interviews
of “experts” on a wide variety of hot-
button topics were the fare on Tuesdays, action/adventure play, sometimes
with the group leaving the Grotto for
site–specific adventures, was offered on
Saturdays; on Wednesdays Gary hosted
his peculiar interpretation of “group
therapy” sessions that were popular in the ‘70s featuring the occasional parlor sex play game, and on Sundays, singular acoustic musical acts performed.

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Frog Jump Contest

The Calaveras County Frog Jump was made famous by Mark Twain

Judy Lee first proposed this event in May 78 in nooseletter #5

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What ended up happening is that we entered one of our own (JW) as a contestant dressed in a frog suit.

Meanwhile Flamo Le Grand (David Warren) wandered the grounds hawking fresh frog legs.